The Bible says “He said also to the man who had invited him, When you give a dinner or a banquet, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors, lest they also invite you in return and you be repaid. ” But when you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed, because they cannot repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the just.” (Luke 14:12-14 (ESV).
This is the opposite party arrangement. People invites those who they love and those who they think can add value to their celebration. Highly will the poor and cripples be invited to a party or wedding. The words of God: The less privileges and the needs should be the right invitees to a party. Those who cannot pay back and cannot add glamour or colors to the celebration.